**update** I am no longer seeing anyone. I am a single, but very open 37 yo man. If you are a single/attached woman, or couple, I'd love to hear from you..... (attached is ok, as long as your partner knows, if you are cheating, well... I may WANT to, but I probably wont.) I have frequented swingers clubs, from time to time.... I enjoy being watched, and am into 3somes, couple swapping, and just straight sex... I have enjoyed some experiences in, or with, the BDSM world. While it is not something I seek out, I am definitely open to someone with a few kinks. About me: I am a driven and focused 37yo man, in Calgary. I am Hard working, and good looking. I am fairly fit, and take care of myself well.... I am an entrepreneur, and I am always on the lookout for a new opportunity. I am the kind of guy who never appears to get scared or nervous... fact is, I often feel fear, but I am energized and motivated by it. So if you are a hot woman, I will probably approach you, just to conquer my fear..... I am the type of guy who ALWAYS does what he says he will. No matter how difficult, or silly, if I told you I would do it, you can bank on it. I am looking for someone to have some fun with, I would like if she was Bi, or curious, because then we could include a friend. At the end of the day, I suppose what I really want is a relationship, if I could find it with someone who is as open with their sexuality as I am.... JACKPOT!!!! Oh, and while I dont care if you drink, or use "recreational" drugs, I DO NOT use drugs of any kind, or drink ANY alcohol, ever. It has been more than 18 yrs since I tasted a drop.

My Ideal Person I prefer younger, but don't want to limit myself.... I have met some older ladies who have rocked my world...

I don't really care about your 'body type', I really care about how you feel about yourself.... If you really dig yourself, I'm sure I will too, no matter how much you look like the magazine cover, or don't.

I find security, and self esteem to be the sexiest traits a woman can have.... looks are a bonus that help a connection to be made, but have NOTHING to do with maintaining it. Intelligence makes me rock-hard too...

I am interested in someone who is open sexually, as I have many things left on my to-do list, and wouldn't want to be limited by my partners hang-ups.

If you are not OPEN (yet), don't let it stop you from contacting me, just be willing to learn and grow with me....
Life is a journey, not a destination.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, My desk at work, A store dressing room, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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