This is where I just need to be honest right?!?!? Alright, here I go. I am 36 years old, 37 in a few days, and recently single. It was my second long-term relationship and both added ren into my life. Not a bad thing at all. The difference this time is we have decided to continue to cohabitate and co-parent. After two relationships spanning 17 years I have no desire to be in a relationship, but I do want friends. I have moved a lot over the years and have lost most of my friends. Of course, I am human and would like for a friendship that allowed two adults to just have fun and explore things that make us happy. I have never been with a man, but the idea does cross my mind from time to time. I have a desire to become better mentally and physically. The type of people I want to be around represent what I want to become. I want friends that want to take some edibles, head to gym, and then hang out afterwards to talk about how we can help make where we live better. Plan how to make it better and actually follow through with it. I want to be that per I just need the right people in my life to make sure I do it. We can help each other, encourage each other, push each other. Like therapy, but organic. The only major problem is, I do live with someone that I have to respect. I can't bring someone around her if there was anything involved other than just friendship, out of respect.