I'm fairly witty and have a sarcastic but fun sense of humor. I'm probably a little wilder than I look... ;) in fact I'd prefer somebody a little bit on the wild side and that acts younger than their age. I feel and act more like I'm about 35 and I'm not sure that's ever going to change! I've been in relationships were we have attended local swinging events so I'm experience with sexual meetings and sometimes able to host. As you may know, many of the local swinging events are to couples only so I'm often interested in finding a partner to attend these events with. I love riding and racing motorcycles and taking trips on my Honda Goldwing which surrounds my passenger in comfort and safety and which can also pull a trailer for longer trips. I like going to different kinds of bars, restaurants, movies, pretty much anything outdoors. But also like to chill at home and watch a good movie. I work out regularly and am already getting ready for the summer.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone who is active, attractive and relatively HWP but there can certainly be exceptions based on other physical and mental attributes.

Many of the things below are based on having a real relationship. But if your just looking for some fun then I'm much more open minded and consider myself pretty good at pleasuring others...

Miscellaneous things that MAY somewhat effect if we’re a good a match....

Years ago I didn't like tattoos on women but now I find some well done ones quite sexy and plan to get one on my shoulder very soon.

If you never wear jeans we may not work out. But if you still feel young enough to occasionally where a pair of ripped jeans (as do I but only at appropriate places of course) that’s a plus. Also I'd prefer someone who lives within 30 minutes of me in Maryland Heights.

If you never EVER say the f-word or similar that might be a bad sign for us. I try not to cuss much at all but stuff does slip out at times so if that really offends you…

Similarly if you’re a 100% straight arrow sort of like the *stereotypical* Soccer Mom (although don’t get me wrong I've known some hot and fun soccer moms) we may not be a good match as a few of my arrows can be slightly bent at times but not so much that they’ll come back to hurt you…

If you feel you could be or would like my “partner in crime” (not in a really bad way or if it hurt anybody) but are able to act inappropriately/silly or do inappropriate/silly things that are fun like surprising the other with a slap on the ass in the supermarket aisle when nobody is looking and then running away while being chased by them trying to get you back can be fun. Or doing some things that are “our little secret” that we can laugh about in public without anyone knowing why we are laughing. Then we may be a match.

I do like to drink beer and rum-n-cokes and go to happy hours fairly regularly (although not enough where “they all know my name...”) and sometimes usually have a few beers/drinks over the weekend. But if your idea of drinking “socially” is to have a drink a glass of wine only at holiday parties then we’re probably not a match…

Replying to messages – This is a quandary for me. If I don’t think there’s a good match I typically will just not reply unless it’s specifically requested. Because if we reply to “have a nice day” that could be misleading. And saying sorry we’re not a match just seems sort of mean. I’d rather be ignored myself.

I have to admit I'm a pretty diverse person and don’t necessarily fit into most typical personality/lifestyles. I can be a guy that's a little immature at times (but not in a bad way) but also a guy that can own a business and act very professional when needed. Admittedly I'm in a bit of a rebuilding phase and I’m little bit of a diamond in the rough right now in some ways but I’m working on some good re-polishing! Given my inventing, patenting and business experience I have a lot more potential that will definitely be leading to some very exciting changes including enjoying many of the "finer things in life" that are definitely soon ahead!!!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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