So many fake profiles on this site, it's embarrassing. I'm looking to enter into a friends with benefits situation. I would love to have a female friend to have drinks and/or dinner, even if it doesn't necessarily lead to sex every time. I'm ready to formulate some new relationships and just see where things lead. Now, the sexy stuff...I am a fit, clean-cut guy with a vivid imagination. I'm open to exploring a variety of fantasy situations so tell me yours and I'll tell you mine. I desire someone who is as into me as I am into her. I try to take care of myself as best I can, so I expect the same of someone else. I enjoy good food, good wine, and good company. Long-term is certainly an option if we hit it off, but let's cross that bridge if and when we get to it. I long for a sincere, reciprocal intimate relationship where there is no drama. I love the female form and I aim to please my partner, so you can rest assured you will not be left behind when it comes to pleasure. Be honest, sincere, attractive in your own right and let's see what happens. Chat first, meet in public second, then see where it goes. I can be romantic, kinky, playful, or all of the above. I am extremely attracted to redheads, so if you are a ginger, you move to the front of the line.

My Ideal Person Life is too short to have bad relationships. My ideal person is intelligent, sincere, funny, sarcastic, and simply looking for fun. Looking for someone who wants to explore fantasies and not walk away disappointed. Love someone who is educated. Likes to eat good food and drink good wine. Laid back but knows what she wants.

My belief is that we are all connected to one another spiritually and I'm eager to find someone who continues to grow emotionally.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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